Hi, this article might be useful to boys who are beginners in the
 field of love. These tips have been tested by me and its working. It's 
important that you read carefully and understand.
1] Attention.
First you should get the attention of whom you are going to love.
 Its okay she is older or elder but first you should get the attention. 
Without it you can't love a women or a girl. For an example try flirting
 or ask the time or ask her a book to read. Be careful, don't flirt on 
public places. If you do so you would be kicked by older boys.
2] Good relationship.
Okay, now you have got the attention of your love, you should be 
friendly and build up your relationship more and more. Try helping her 
with her work sometimes or chat or text her. Make arrangements to do get
 together homework. If she is older you can't do homework, instead try 
chatting with your dream love. Pls talk politely with your dream love.
3] Date her.
If you are friendlier with your older love or elder love, try 
dating her. Pls ask the girl very politely. If she says yes that means 
she likes you a bit or more than that. Try a candle light lunch [candle 
light dinners are normally done so try a lunch instead of dinner]. Talk 
more romantically.
4] Ignore.
If your dream love is starting to hang out with you more than her
 friends, try ignoring your love for 2-7 days. This will make your love 
crazy but she starts to worry why you are doing this. So this works.
5] Propose
Now it's the time to propose your love to your dream love. After 
ignoring her she might come and ask you why you are doing like that. 
Then you say there is one reason why you are doing this. Then she asks 
what it is? Then you say you are in love with her and you are afraid to 
say because your dream love will leave you. So these are the 5 tips to 
make your dream love to love you in 2-4 months. I wish you best of luck.
Anniversary Gifts That Say "I Love You"
Exchanging anniversary gifts is a long standing tradition. Many 
couples seek out traditional gifts for each year of marriage, but others
 prefer "modern" gifts. Below you'll find a few ideas to say "I love 
you" on your special day.
Some of the symbols are the same whether the gift is traditional 
or modern. Through time, the symbols representing each year of 
anniversary has changed slightly, allowing greater flexibility when it 
comes to selecting anniversary gifts.
The first five years are generally considered most important, 
followed by the 10 year, 20 year and 50 year anniversaries. When most 
people think of giving an anniversary gift, they often want to remind 
the love of their life how important they are to them. No matter what 
the symbol however, you can certainly find some way to romanticize the 
gift.
Take the first year traditional symbol for example: paper. Many 
unique anniversary gifts can be crafted from paper that are romantic or 
sentimental. This might include a set of stationary, where you write a 
poem to your loved one on the first piece. Perhaps you might consider 
something that reflects your partner's hobbies, such as a cookbook with 
an inscription to the love of your life on the front cover.
Any gift can be romanticized if a little though is put into the 
process. Even a travel clock for example, can be considered a 
personalized gift. If for example, your partner travels frequently, you 
might consider a travel clock engraved with a sentimental expression, 
such as "thinking of you". Your partner will remember your 
thoughtfulness every time he or she refers to the clock for a check on 
the time. Or perhaps you might write a quick note accompanying a chiming
 clock, "as each moment ticks by, my love for you grows stronger". Not a
 bad way to keep track of time.
Who Loves You?
    
The journey from the Earth to the Moon is one of the pivotal 
events in the history of the human race. The words, "A small step for 
man, a giant leap for mankind", uttered by Astronaut Neil Armstrong on 
taking his first step on the Moon are instantly recognized around the 
world.
In our relationships, when faced with making a commitment and 
showing our true feelings it's very much like making a journey to the 
Moon. The debate rages around fear of commitment and who says what 
first. Tremendous energy, time and space is being dedicated to analyzing
 when to say "I love you" and what to do depending on the other persons 
response. There are even strategies for trying to say "I love you", 
without actually saying it! These three little words are so loaded with 
meaning, that after saying "I love you", we might as well add, "three 
small words for mankind, a giant leap for me..." Once you say these 
three magic words the world does indeed change for the two people 
involved.
If it's such a difficult thing to say and has such consequences, 
then why do people continue to say it? The answer is that the basis for a
 true romantic relationship is sincere and mutual commitment. We all 
have a fundamental need to be loved, a love that is beyond the love of 
parents, siblings and friends. Everybody needs to be loved and to love 
somebody. The sum of the creative works of humanity is a testament to 
mankind's need for love.
The problem arises when one or both of the people in a 
relationship are not in love with each other. If they can be honest with
 themselves and each other, then they can establish that the basis of 
the relationship is something other than love and avoid making a 
commitment. If people could do this and easily have relationships 
without love, then most of the relationship advice industry would very 
quickly run out of work. The reality is that at least one person in 
every relationship thinks that the relationship is based on love or at 
some point has the chance of being so.
Fortunately, or unfortunately, depending on your point of view, 
there is no easy way to get around saying "I love you", unless one is 
great liar or an Oscar winning actor. If in doubt, you can try saying 
the following lines while looking in the mirror and feel the truth for 
yourself:
"I like you"
"You mean so much to me"
"I really like you"
"You make feel special"
"You mean so much to me"
"I really like you"
"You make feel special"
"I love you"
Feel the difference? The truth has a resonance that is very 
difficult to fake and, when it comes to love, you can bet everybody's 
senses are tuned in at maximum sensitivity. When you are ready and truly
 say "I love you" to somebody this entails many things. To mention a few
 implications, it's expected that you're sincere, that you'll be 
faithful and that you've given this matter some thought. Your statement 
is said with conviction about your feelings and in the hope that the 
other person can reciprocate your love, but it is by no means an 
expectation or obligation on the other person. This is the scary part 
about love, the fear of saying "I love you" and then hearing a very long
 and painful silence afterwards. The fear of this results in many people
 never being able to say what they feel.
For those people who are truly in love, not saying "I love you" 
to their loved one leaves them feeling empty and unfulfilled. Sometimes 
it's not the response that's important but the conviction which enables 
one to say "I love you". The belief that you have found the right person
 and to have the emotion of love flowing in your heart is a feeling 
that's central to the meaning of life and for many worth the risk of 
unrequited love. As St. Augustine said, "Better to have loved and lost, 
than to have never loved at all".
Who loves you? The answer is simple; it's the person who has the 
conviction to say "I love you" and then lives up to all that these three
 words entail.
I Love You - Avoid Relationship Problems by Understanding Different Love Styles
Often we assume that love means to our partners what it means to 
us, but the truth is, two people rarely mean the same thing when they 
say "I love you." In marriage counseling, we hear time and again the 
sometimes plaintive, sometimes desperate words: "I just don't love her 
anymore" or "I love him, but I am not in love with him." What this 
usually means is that a specific quality that the person wants in love 
is missing or has changed.
Let's say a couple goes to a marriage counselor just after 12 months 
of marriage. Their first session was brimmed with tension, and they 
claimed to have fallen out of love with each other. The wife complains: 
"You hardly ever tell me that you love me!" while the husband exclaims 
"Of course I love you, but I shouldn't have to tell you that I love you 
every waking moment - I do loving things for you. My actions speak 
louder than words ever could."
The couple might be having big relationship issues and it has 
certainly crossed their minds to just give up on each other and their 
marriage by simply getting a divorce. But they still want to work things
 out and make their relationship work. That is the reason why they went 
to a marriage counselor in the first place, but sometimes, no matter how
 hard any couple would really want to make their relationship work and 
go back to the way they were before, they still end up separated or 
divorced.
Did the couple fall out of love? No. Their love styles were 
merely out of sync and are causing insufferable tension. It is not 
uncommon for one partner to feel loving toward his or her partner while 
the other feels unloved. More often than not, it's not because their 
love has withered, it has simply taken on a style that is not meeting 
the partner's needs.
Most women equate love with showers of affection, gifts, 
touching, tenderness - all of which makes some men feel uncomfortable 
just because they didn't fit into their own perception of love. Most men
 express love by avoiding arguments, fixing broken appliances, listening
 and bringing home a paycheck to his family. A lot of men want 
companionable love while women crave for romantic love. Some needed a 
deeper sense of bonding and certainty while others long for more 
sensuality.
Don't just assume that how you love is how your partner wants to 
be loved. The phrase "I love you" can mean different things to everyone.
 Learn to adapt to how your partner perceives love because everyone 
gives and receives love differently.
Your Father Loves You - John 3-1
Just the other day, I was driving by a church billboard that reads, 
"Fear of God is the beginning of wisdom." Interestingly, this entire 
sentence could draw the public in, by changing the words just a little 
bit. "Love of God is the beginning of true wisdom," sounds much better, 
and is it not the truth?
Would you rather pay your respects to someone you love or someone
 you fear? Now, we realize that God is not just "someone," but this 
"fear of God" strategy works much more like a cattle prod than the good 
shepherd summoning his flock.
For Christians, it is also a misinterpretation of scripture 
because we must look at the word of Jesus to see the love of God. Let's 
take a close look at John 3:1.
3:1 "Behold, what manner of love the 
Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God: 
therefore the world knoweth us not, because it knew him not."
For most people, doing God's work is a humble task with little 
fame, and God loves you for it. This is not a criticism of those who 
have gained fame through religion. There are many religious leaders who 
make good role models and a rare few who do not. Unfortunately, bad news
 is often "front page news."
The vast majority of people are good. Yet, their thoughts are 
barely heard, because "the noisy wheel gets the oil." Small groups have 
organized throughout history to undermine the good in life.
Unfortunately, it appears as if most of the world does not really
 know God, when organizations, who claim to care about your civil 
liberties take immoral actions, and people turn their backs on God.
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