Romantic Tips For Love Notes

These romantic tips for love notes will get you writing notes that speak from your heart. Romantic notes combine romantic words and romantic gestures, and communicate spontaneity and playfulness in a relationship.

They include the element of surprise when they're hidden in places your sweetie wouldn't expect. These love messages will be a welcome surprise and a source of pleasure once they are discovered and read.

To write a love note, use the stickie note pads. You won't have to worry about finding tape and the stickies are the perfect size.

Keep your message short but pertinent to your relationship. If you have pet names for each other, you can simply write, "(Pet name), I love you".

Other phrases can include, "you're hot", "you're sexy", "I want you", "I'll be thinking about you", "you're my everything" or anything you can think of to describe your emotions in a short number of words.

Be clever when you think of places to hide the notes. If he's a gym buff, hide it in his gym bag. If she plays tennis, attach a note to her tennis racket.

Some other ideas for note hiding include underneath the pillow, stuck to the remote control, in his jacket pocket, in her purse, in a shoe, in the cereal box, in the bath tub, stuck to the hair dryer, stuck to her shampoo or lotion bottle, on the computer screen, and on the windshield of the car.

Use your imagination and you'll be able to come up with lots of ideas based on your sweetie's daily habits and preferences.

Love notes are fun and should be added to the ways you show your love to your soulmate. Have fun, speak from the heart, keep it short and keep writing, at least once a week.

Unique Ways to Say I Love You - How to Be Creative in Showing Your Love

Saying I love you is not supposed to be dull and lifeless. Love is itself is overwhelming and downright amazing, that's why when in love, we always come up with creative ways to say I love you to make our loved one feel special and happy. There are about a million unique ways you can say I love you to keep you both inspired and invigorated as a couple. Here are a few tips on coming up with it, and make dull days into love days all year round!

Do it the old school way. They say love that isn't mad is not love at all. Let everybody know you're in love (but try not to be too annoying please) and skip when going to class. Love is amazing and it makes you do impossible things. Don't suppress it. Feel it and let show.
Ditch the usual. Forget the usual flowers, chocolates and teddy bears. Though this stuff still works, try something different. Why not cook her favorite meal, sign up for kung fu together or learn a different language. Dare to be different with love. Make her a poem or better yet, compose her a song and serenade her in front of her friends.
Be crazy. Get away from what's normal --- it's boring. Elevate romance by discovering something new everyday. Try something new from the menu, ditch your normal DVD night and invite both her and your friends over, ride the roller coaster, watch a concert or volunteer together to do charity work. Having fun together is a great foundation to make your relationship much stronger and healthier.

How to Get a Man to Say I Love You? Follow These Tips & Watch Him Confess His Love For You

As many women have already noticed throughout the ages, men typically don't go for emotionally heavy conversation, and the words "I love you" is a kind of fear-factor for them. They are, well, the "action-oriented" gender and they would really rather show it than say it. So, how does a woman get to make her man utter those precious words?

Don't ask too soon
Asking a man if he loves a woman, especially if it's too soon, automatically would creep him out and send him away-running. Men associate these words to being tied down to a life of commitment.

Don't be desperate
Throwing tantrums, being depressed, begging, whining, and total loss of self-control and dignity won't make him get into that mood to say those words. He probably will, just to make the woman stop - but it won't be heartfelt and sincere.

Don't push it
Pushing his guilt button by constantly telling about friends whose boyfriends have said the words, or pointing out scenes from romantic movies, or making him feel like it's his obligation isn't going to help much. To a woman, I love you may mean the world, but to a man, it's probably just boring emotional stuff.

Acknowledge what he does
Men show their love differently from women. Acknowledging his expression of love would somehow assure him that his efforts are not taken for granted, and this would hopefully build his confidence in expressing it verbally later on.

Have a life
A woman must have a life, her own friends, her own hobbies. This usually keeps a man on his toes. If a woman is there with him all the time, running at his every call, doing his every demand, he would become complacent and would find no need to assure his woman that he loves her.

Don't plan
Women tend to be hopeless romantics at times, imagining - even planning - that special moment when he would say those special words to her. She would just end up disappointed. Be patient. Let it go. Enjoy the time together.

Be the woman he wants to be with
He fell in love with her because of certain qualities that attracted him to her in the first place. She must be careful to keep those qualities and continue improving herself.

If a man finds that she is the woman he wouldn't want to lose, then he will gladly give up his freedom to keep her. Once he's decided she is THE one, he wouldn't hesitate to say those words-straight from his heart.Pay Close Attention Here-

Let me elaborate on LOVE as a choice.

Choice

Love is not involuntary.

The experience we have where we just 'fall in love' is nowhere near the realm of love. This is because we volunteer to love. We choose to love. We must choose to love. If there is no choice involved then it is not love.

Usually, anything involuntary is suspect. Like when you are under the influence of say, alcohol, it's even illegal to drive a vehicle because of the greater possibility of acting involuntarily. In the same way, if your 'love' for anyone is involuntary, you could be under the influence of...well, something.

Testosterone is the number one influence for men when they 'fall in love' with women.

Riches are number one for women. Ever heard of the saying, 'Don't follow after women because when you get money, women will follow after you'? If you are rich and a woman says she loves you, it most likely will be because she s under the influence of the dough!

The involuntary stuff should be in the realm of words like, fondness, desire, like, comfortable with, enjoy, you know stuff like that.

Love requires an act of choice...a decision. It must be a thoroughly calculated resolve. No feelings. No outside or internal influences.

It must be unconditional...enemy or not, young or not, female or not, rich or not, white or not, etc.
And eternal. You must decide to make it a life long commitment to love...to sacrifice yourself for the good of another.

Sad, Lonely and Broken Hearted? The "I Love You" Game is Not What Will Bring You True Happiness

The old Elvis Presley song quote, "I feel so lonely I could cry" sums up this article and the state of mind of many millions of sad, lonely and broken hearted people who have "opted" to role their dice on the "I Love You" game in the pursuit of true happiness and fulfillment.

But why was Elvis Presley so lonely that he wanted to cry? Like most people on Earth he has fallen for the subtle lie perpetrated by society that love will fulfill us and bring us happiness. How many people have been in a family who loves them dearly, yet they still feel empty, sad, lonely and depressed inside? How many people have been in a romantic relationship with a partner they love and who loves them, yet they still feel the emptiness, the sadness and the loneliness within?

This is because "external love" - contrary to what society has led us to believe - can never deliver to us true happiness and fulfillment. People who "chase after love" are using love as an addiction to give them a "happiness high", a feeling of elation - yet this happiness high is only temporary, and the effects soon wear off. Elvis too was chasing happiness through love, and because he invested all of his "self worth" into the "I Love You" game and the love was not forthcoming, he felt so lonely he could cry.

So why do we chase after love to rid us of our loneliness, our sadness and our broken heart? Let us look at this logically and break it down. If you have any sort of belief in God or spirituality you will find it difficult to argue with the following points:

a] God is a Being of Unconditional Love
b] We are all sons and daughters of God and thus we are also inherently Beings of Love.
c] We are Beings of Love because we have the capacity to "give love" and "receive love"

So if we are all Beings of Love, then why do we need more love from outside of our very own being to feel whole, complete and fulfilled? This is a very important question and the crux of this article.

As a channel for Spirit, I have a good understanding of our spiritual purpose on Earth and thus I feel I can answer this question adequately, at least in the minds of some. Every soul on Earth has a Human Self, a Lower Self (that includes their Ego, their fears) and a Higher Self. This Higher Self permanently resides in the Spiritual Heavens. This Higher Self is a part of God and each soul on Earth is connected to their own Higher Self via an invisible silver cord. This Higher Self is the Source of Love for each soul.

When a soul on Earth stops "focusing" on its Higher God Self - its Source of Love - and chooses to believe it is empty of love and needs love from outside itself to find true happiness and fulfillment, then its own "thoughts" STOP the flow of love coming into its soul from its Higher Self.

Why does this happen? Well in truth, your thoughts create your reality. This is a spiritual law and reality. Whatever you think becomes your reality. If you truly believe you are NOT a part of God or VOID of love or EMPTY of love inside, then you will create the experience of feeling this way. This is the reason why so many people on Earth feel sad, lonely and depressed. This is the reason why so many people choose the "I Love You" game to find true happiness and fulfillment because they have convinced themselves they do not have the love already inside of them. And there is nothing more to it. It is this simple.

Those who "chase love", believing they are EMPTY of love inside, can taste love through relationships, yet they will never BECOME the Quality of Love. You will only find true inner contentment and fulfillment by reconnecting to the True Reality of Who You Are, which is a Being of Love. And then you'll be so loving you could fly.

 Christmas and New Year have just passed. You had a wonderful time with all the celebrations, food and parties. What do you think made you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?

It could be the relationships that you fostered and built during this season of goodwill. Some of these relationships made you feel very happy. It could have been that you renewed a friendship with someone whom you had lost touch with for a long time. Or it could be that you repaired a relationship with that someone who had been very close to your heart at one time. Or perhaps you met someone special and would like to have a further relationship with.
You have experienced something special this Christmas and New Year. It important that you capture this moment and cement the relationship you have repaired or built with that someone special. The gift-giving time is past but a love letter is something you can write and deliver as an after-celebration gift, without being too awkward.
Love letters are rather interesting. It is the only medium by which you can focus on 'you'. How being with the other person made you feel by being with them, in their presence or even just a thought of them. And in return, the solicits a reciprocal reaction.
Well, in this period of celebration - Christmas and New Year, there are bound to be many events which you can pick up on and use in your love letter. Be very focused on the event and describe how the event made you feel. The event can be an encounter, an introduction, a unique gesture and even an achievement which made you feel loved, proud, glad, happy or perhaps helped you view that someone in a different light.
Write your love letter focusing on that specific event. Write about the event as though you were telling a story to someone else. Finally, write how the event made you feel. And then finally, write what you want to do. Perhaps you want to see the other person more often or just want to keep in touch and never to lose contact with other person.
So, make the Christmas and New Year past even more special, and send a love letter to that someone special. It does not have to be a long one and you can get more pointers from my other articles in writing them. If you put in the right amount of effort, your relationship will continue to develop and who knows the relationship could blossom into something special forever.
Putting effort and mastering the art of writing one and sharing life's wonderful moments often bring lots of joy to both the giver and the recipient.
Think of your love letter as a means of capturing life's moments shared between you and the recipient. Try it and be amazed by its effects. The best part is it does not have to be costly or difficult to do, just a little effort on your part.

 Almost everybody has forgotten to take time and make love letters. They seem so old fashioned and overrated. Today, we have relied our means of communication solely to new technology such as email, SMS, cell phones and video phones. Sure, life has become easier. But when it comes to expressing our love, a little extra effort will bring us a long way. Besides, there is no boundary when it comes to conveying our emotions. It doesn't matter if it's too elaborate or simple, the important thing is, we take time to remind our loved ones how much they mean to us.
Love letters have been used as one of the earliest means to express a person's undying love. It's cheap and easy to do, not to mention that it still gives women that certain twinge of excitement. Writing love letters is simple, not to mention, more natural and unlimited. You can go to long lengths to your heart's content, or just a few words are enough. Nonetheless, love letters will always be romantic. Tell someone you like them, remind them that they make you happy or just simply let them know you love them --- being thoughtful and sensitive is a strength, and sending love notes to your special someone will not only fortify your bond, it adds spice to your love life. Remember: keep it short, simple but make sure it comes the heart. Go ahead and be cheesy, there really is no rule. Express the love. Make it know. Send those love letters now.